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    Dealing with Doctors | Overcoming Obstacles

    Traumatic Brain Injuries and Emergency Rooms

    ByAlison Hayes January 31, 2020November 22, 2021

    I want to specifically talk about brain injuries in relation to emergency rooms because I have had too many experiences with them. I know how challenging it can be to have a TBI recognized and how very important this is, especially in the case of the brain injury being caused by an accident that eventually…

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  • Should I go to the emergency room: the trauma factor
    Overcoming Obstacles | Dealing with Doctors

    Should I go to the emergency room: the trauma factor

    ByAlison Hayes January 24, 2020February 3, 2020

    My phone rang. ‘Hey, honey?’ my partner Al said “I need you to call mom and dad about this, but I want you to make sure they don’t freak out” “Freak out about what?” I asked, instantly concerned. “Well, they called an ambulance for me. I slipped and I think I might have dislocated my…

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  • Should I go to the emergency room: Biases in treatment
    Dealing with Doctors | Overcoming Obstacles

    Should I go to the emergency room: Biases in treatment

    ByAlison Hayes January 17, 2020January 11, 2021

    There are a lot of potential issues with going to a hospital ER, but one that many people don’t want to recognize is bias.

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  • Alison’s Adventures in the ER: a migraine story
    Overcoming Obstacles | Dealing with Doctors

    Alison’s Adventures in the ER: a migraine story

    ByAlison Hayes September 20, 2019February 9, 2022

    A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a post about the current storm of stress that is happening in my life. My migraine started as a headache during a peak stress day(the day started with dropping my cat Rorschach at the vet’s for an endoscopy, then picking up a bridal shower present for a friend…

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    Dealing with Doctors | Strategizing for success

    Building a partnership with your doctor: Deciding if you are seeing the right doctor

    ByAlison Hayes August 30, 2019June 7, 2023

    Third in the series on building a partnership with your doctor, this post digs into how to tell if you are seeing the right doctor.

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  • Building a partnership with your doctor: good doctor-patient communication
    Dealing with Doctors | Strategizing for success

    Building a partnership with your doctor: good doctor-patient communication

    ByAlison Hayes August 23, 2019November 19, 2020

    Doctor and patient communication should be a two-way street, not one. While your doctor has medical expertise and training in how to recognize and treat medical conditions, you are the expert on your body and your needs. As a patient, it’s your responsibility to gather good information about yourself and your history and symptoms, and…

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    Dealing with Doctors | Strategizing for success

    Building a partnership with your doctor(s): Deciding when you need to see your doctor

    ByAlison Hayes July 26, 2019November 19, 2019

    This is the first of three posts on creating a partnership with your doctor(or doctors). This post focuses on how often to see your doctor. The second post will be about how to communicate better with your doctor, while the third post digs into recognizing your doctor’s ability(or inability) to work with you. I always…

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  • Al’s diagnosis journey: how a broken hip led to diagnosis of a blood disorder
    Dealing with Doctors | Overcoming Obstacles

    Al’s diagnosis journey: how a broken hip led to diagnosis of a blood disorder

    ByAlison Hayes May 31, 2019September 6, 2019

    This post is about why it’s so important to keep pushing doctors in order to find out just what the medical problem is, and how to solve it. The following is what Al and I went through(mainly from a medical perspective), and the lessons we learned from it. Despite mostly finding very good doctors, going…

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  • Selecting a primary care physician
    Dealing with Doctors | Strategizing for success

    Selecting a primary care physician

    ByAlison Hayes May 17, 2019December 31, 2022

    I’m searching for a new primary care physician(PCP) now, and I wanted to bring you along on the journey. The importance, value, and need for a primary care physician does vary based upon what sort of insurance you have, but in general everybody should have a doctor they know and trust to see whenever they…

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    Dealing with Doctors | Functional Neurological Disorder(FND)

    Getting diagnosed with Functional Neurological Disorder

    ByAlison Hayes April 12, 2019March 31, 2023

    I have a condition known as Functional Neurological Disorder(FND).  I was diagnosed in 2003, when people were even less aware of the condition than they are now.  It had a different name(Conversion Disorder) and was labeled as a form of mental illness, rather than as a neurological condition.   In my case, Conversion Disorder remains…

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Alison Hayes

As a person with a sometimes-invisible illness that straddles neurology and psychiatry (Functional Neurological Disorder), I've dealt with a lot of the stigma surrounding physical and mental illnesses and both visible and invisible illnesses. I want to help other people with disabilities to regain perspective and control over their lives through manageable steps and make their lives better, one step at a time.

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I am not a doctor, lawyer, or therapist.  I am a person with a disability who has learned a lot about many aspects of living life with a disabling condition.  My posts are intended as jumping off points connected to the best knowledge I could find.  I cannot be held responsible for the decisions you make or the actions you take.  

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