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    Dealing with Doctors | Overcoming Obstacles

    The pain of losing a great doctor

    ByAlison Hayes February 26, 2021March 3, 2021

    On Tuesday, I had an appointment with a new neurologist. The neurologist I’d been seeing, Dr. Schneider, was on medical leave due to a cancer diagnosis. I’d had a telehealth appointment with Dr. Schneider in June, and he’d been a little pale and skinnier than usual (he was always a pretty slender guy), and during…

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    Dealing with Doctors | Strategizing for success

    Self-diagnosis: perils, pitfalls, and occasionally the appropriate action

    ByAlison Hayes January 15, 2021March 14, 2022

    While I’ve talked about how the diagnosis process is one of guessing and checking, I want to emphasize that in most cases, it’s essential to have a doctor be involved in the process. We, as laypeople, don’t have access to all the information or tools needed to be in any way sure that our interpretation…

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    Getting Government assistance | Functional Neurological Disorder(FND) | Overcoming Obstacles

    Can you get disability if you have FND?

    ByAlison Hayes December 4, 2020November 20, 2023

    Functional Neurological Disorder (FND) is a relatively common (though rarely properly diagnosed) condition. I was diagnosed in 2003 when it was still being called Conversion Disorder (and labeled as a mental illness rather than a neurological condition). I want to be really clear about this: the condition you have (your diagnosis) is less impactful on…

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    Strategizing for success | Getting Government assistance

    Can you get married on disability? The reasons I won’t

    ByAlison Hayes November 27, 2020December 11, 2020

    While I’ve talked about this a bit previously, I want to dig a bit more into the idea of getting or staying married while on disability coverage. The first and most basic thing that I want to emphasize is that this is a choice and that there’s no automatically right or wrong answer. What there…

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    Dealing with Doctors | Strategizing for success

    Your treatment plan: a powerful tool for your well-being

    ByAlison Hayes November 20, 2020March 1, 2022

    You and your doctor(s) can co-create a quality treatment plan. This includes not only the medical treatments, but also lifestyle changes.

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    Overcoming Obstacles | Dealing with Doctors

    Understanding medical diagnosis: why it’s all ‘best guesses’

    ByAlison Hayes October 23, 2020January 14, 2022

    I thought it might be helpful to take a few steps back and dig into how doctors are trained to think about and look at patients, and how they are trained to make diagnoses. This is really important because it helps us understand where missteps and mistakes are more likely to happen and to have…

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    Getting Government assistance | Overcoming Obstacles

    Being your own boss on disability: mastering your destiny

    ByAlison Hayes October 16, 2020July 21, 2022

    As I’ve mentioned on previous posts, you can work while on SSI or SSDI. There are programs, like Ticket to Work and Vocational Rehab programs that can help with the process. However, the reality is that while they can give you information about working, they often are only prepared to help you with calculations related…

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    Overcoming Obstacles | Taking care of yourself

    Internalized Ableism: the struggle to accept our own worthiness

    ByAlison Hayes September 11, 2020July 19, 2022

    People with disabilities are often marginalized by society – and there are a variety of reasons for it. The social model of disability focuses on how instead of viewing our symptoms as failures on our part, it’s time to start looking at what assumptions society has made that make participating in the greater community more…

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    Social connections | Overcoming Obstacles

    Ableism in Black Culture

    ByKay Uchi August 21, 2020August 21, 2020

    I shed many tears to unpack these memories of my wounds that  are clearly still open just to write this blog.  The subject of ableism is relevant to all aspects of life yet there is very little discussion.  The subject is basically unchallenged by society.  While many people are recognizing and studying racism, much less…

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    Overcoming Obstacles | Getting Government assistance

    Navigating the Charity Care Labyrinth

    ByAlison Hayes August 14, 2020November 28, 2022

    As of July 27, 2020, I am elated to announce that I am no longer in debt to my local hospitals. I’m also very angry that it’s taken as long as it has. To give you some background: I have Functional Neurological Disorder(FND), which is a relatively common (but rarely properly diagnosed) neurological condition that…

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Alison Hayes

As a person with a sometimes-invisible illness that straddles neurology and psychiatry (Functional Neurological Disorder), I've dealt with a lot of the stigma surrounding physical and mental illnesses and both visible and invisible illnesses. I want to help other people with disabilities to regain perspective and control over their lives through manageable steps and make their lives better, one step at a time.

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I am not a doctor, lawyer, or therapist.  I am a person with a disability who has learned a lot about many aspects of living life with a disabling condition.  My posts are intended as jumping off points connected to the best knowledge I could find.  I cannot be held responsible for the decisions you make or the actions you take.  

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