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  • Alison smiling, wearing a FNDHope shirt and holding a sign reading "I am #FNDAware, are you?"
    Taking care of yourself | Functional Neurological Disorder(FND) | Overcoming Obstacles

    My FND diagnosis journey

    ByAlison Hayes April 24, 2020June 9, 2023

    After some thought, I decided that the most appropriate way to end FND Awareness month was to talk about my early experience with FND – from when my symptoms started to when I actually recieved my FND diagnosis. This is a journey that took a bit over 3 years, so that you have a sense…

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  • When social welfare programs fail to work
    Overcoming Obstacles | Getting Government assistance

    When social welfare programs fail to work

    ByAlison Hayes March 6, 2020March 11, 2020

    It’s that time again, I’m writing in response to A Chronic Voice’s monthly linkup.  March prompts: weighing, targeting, being, doing, staying This month, I was inspired by the struggles my partner Al and I have been having the past few months with three different programs designed to help our most needy populations: Medicaid, LiHEAP(Low-income Heat and…

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  • Getting diagnosed is a journey, not an event
    Dealing with Doctors | Strategizing for success

    Getting diagnosed is a journey, not an event

    ByAlison Hayes February 21, 2020April 3, 2021

    Doctors can and often do make the wrong diagnosis. There are also people, especially those who spend a long period of time without a diagnosis, who start to see a diagnosis as a holy grail – that one true thing that will make their lives ok again. What a diagnosis is Diagnoses are labels. They…

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  • Managing Stress if you go to an ER
    Dealing with Doctors | Overcoming Obstacles

    Managing Stress if you go to an ER

    ByAlison Hayes February 7, 2020February 4, 2020

    If you are not experiencing an immediately life-threatening emergency, please double-check with your doctor if at all possible to see if there is a reasonable alternative to going to the ER. Not only are ER visits substantially more expensive than regular doctor or hospital visits, but they also are spaces where you have almost no…

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  • ceramic person with closed eyes and the upper skull cleaning removed, showing a detailed model of the human brain
    Dealing with Doctors | Overcoming Obstacles

    Traumatic Brain Injuries and Emergency Rooms

    ByAlison Hayes January 31, 2020November 22, 2021

    I want to specifically talk about brain injuries in relation to emergency rooms because I have had too many experiences with them. I know how challenging it can be to have a TBI recognized and how very important this is, especially in the case of the brain injury being caused by an accident that eventually…

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  • Should I go to the emergency room: the trauma factor
    Overcoming Obstacles | Dealing with Doctors

    Should I go to the emergency room: the trauma factor

    ByAlison Hayes January 24, 2020February 3, 2020

    My phone rang. ‘Hey, honey?’ my partner Al said “I need you to call mom and dad about this, but I want you to make sure they don’t freak out” “Freak out about what?” I asked, instantly concerned. “Well, they called an ambulance for me. I slipped and I think I might have dislocated my…

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  • Should I go to the emergency room: Biases in treatment
    Dealing with Doctors | Overcoming Obstacles

    Should I go to the emergency room: Biases in treatment

    ByAlison Hayes January 17, 2020January 11, 2021

    There are a lot of potential issues with going to a hospital ER, but one that many people don’t want to recognize is bias.

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  • Managing debt while Disabled
    Getting Government assistance | Overcoming Obstacles

    Managing debt while Disabled

    ByAlison Hayes November 22, 2019November 28, 2022

    One of the many scary things about being disabled is the crushing debt that can occur and add stress to your life. Most disabled people end up relatively poor, sometimes below the poverty level, due to the combination of expenses and lack of income. We often find ourselves struggling to do more with less and…

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    Getting Government assistance | Strategizing for success

    Selecting your Medicare drug coverage online

    ByAlison Hayes November 15, 2019November 4, 2021

    This post takes you through when I used Medicare.gov to select my Medicare part D(medication) plan for 2020. I decided that it might be useful for any of you who also need to make this selection to walk you through the website and the decision-making process I went through in selecting which plan made the…

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  • Heat and energy assistance from the government: LIHEAP
    Overcoming Obstacles | Getting Government assistance

    Heat and energy assistance from the government: LIHEAP

    ByAlison Hayes November 8, 2019August 15, 2022

    Al and I are in the process now of getting our Low-Income Heat and Energy Assistance Plan(LIHEAP) renewed. Since we are getting it done right now, I figured it was a good time to talk about this program. What is LIHEAP? LIHEAP exists in some form in every state but is usually managed on the…

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Alison Hayes

As a person with a sometimes-invisible illness that straddles neurology and psychiatry (Functional Neurological Disorder), I've dealt with a lot of the stigma surrounding physical and mental illnesses and both visible and invisible illnesses. I want to help other people with disabilities to regain perspective and control over their lives through manageable steps and make their lives better, one step at a time.

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