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  • three smiling bi people. Alison is on the left(white woman with brown hair and tinted lenses), Godwin upside down in the middle(Asian man with black hair and sunglassess), and Nee on the right(Black woman with her hair natural and up). All three are smiling into the camera. They are lying on their backs, with only their faces visible.
    Social connections | Strategizing for success

    Celebrating Pride Weekend as a Queer Disabled Woman

    ByAlison Hayes July 2, 2021June 5, 2023

    I have been living with Functional Neurological Disorder for the past 20 years. I also realized that I was bisexual about 19 years ago. After I joined BiRequest several years after coming out, I was invited to participate in the Heritage of Pride March in New York City. I loved the experience of marching through…

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  • A Third Reconstruction: How this House Resolution should help the disabled community
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    A Third Reconstruction: How this House Resolution should help the disabled community

    ByAlison Hayes June 11, 2021May 9, 2022

    As I’ve mentioned in previous posts, I’m an active participant in the New Jersey Poor People’s Campaign. I want to share with you the most recent activity of the campaign and explain both its significance and how it helps us, the disabled community. The Poor People’s Campaign along with House Representatives Barbara Lee and Pramila…

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  • Alison sits in a car, wearing a dress and with her hair styled back and makeup on, smiling
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    Ableism in society: everybody wants you to be okay

    ByAlison Hayes April 9, 2021July 8, 2022

    One of those challenges that many of us need to deal with is that on top of the physical and emotional trauma involved in our illnesses or injuries, we also often need to communicate what is happening to our loved ones and other significant people in our lives.  This can be challenging, as we are…

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  • white woman with brown hair smiles at the camera. The picture shows her from the chest up and she is smiling. She's wearing a white top draped over a green one.
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    To disclose or not to disclose your condition—it’s your question to answer

    ByMichele Harold March 26, 2021March 26, 2021

    This post is by a friend of mine, Michele Harold, who holds the subject of disclosure near and dear to her heart. “You’re always sick,” my coworker said to me as I entered the office.  I had called in sick the day before due to my disability. My disability causes chronic pain, fatigue, and low-grade…

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  • A Latinx disabled woman and an Asian disabled woman chat and sit on a couch, both holding coffee mugs. An electric lightweight mobility scooter rests on the side.
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    Let me tell you about Hours Well Spent!

    ByAlison Hayes February 5, 2021February 5, 2021

    So it’s once again time for A Chronic Voice’s monthly linkup. This month’s words are uniting, defining, allocating, educating, saving. I have wanted to create this project for years, and now it’s looking like I may have found the right folks to help me make it a reality. I’m super-excited about it and want to explain…

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  • surgical mask is held by the elastic on a peg by a door. Everything in the shot is painted green, with the words 'take care' painted in red on the door, on level with the body of the mask.
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    The many challenges Covid-19 has added to the holiday season

    ByAlison Hayes December 18, 2020December 23, 2020

    While many countries have gotten Covid-19 under control by now, the US has dramatically failed that challenge. We are among the worst countries in the world in terms of both infections and fatalities from this disease. One of the biggest spikes this year was associated with Thanksgiving, which is usually the biggest travel weekend of…

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  • Large sign on a building. Uncle Sam image with the words'I want YOU to stay home'
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    Voting in the time of Corona

    ByAlison Hayes October 2, 2020October 5, 2020

    So, it’s once more time for A Chronic Voice’s monthly linkup. This month’s words are producing, acquiring, switching, disappointing, and forming. Here in the US, it’s election season, and it’s a strange one thanks in part to Covid-19. It has been a really strange and stressful year, and I am extremely concerned about the outcome of…

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  • an official US ballot envelope, purple, with a blue cloth facemask above it.
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    Disabled Rights: Vote like your life depends on it!

    ByAlison Hayes September 25, 2020September 11, 2023

    I have participated in every election since I’ve legally been able to. I feel really fortunate to be able to say that. I’m deeply aware of the privilege behind that, not only due to my whiteness, but also because I’ve lived in areas with minimal waits, and my disability doesn’t require any special accommodations in…

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  • A group of six disabled POC folks gather on a rooftop to chat.
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    Accessibility is about more than just ramps and captions

    ByAlison Hayes August 28, 2020June 30, 2023

    The first thing that I want to make very clear is that I *want* the public to do a better job of making things accessible. I know that even getting ramps, captions, image descriptions, and other basic essentials meant to allow people with physical disabilities to participate in society still has a long way to…

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    Ableism in Black Culture

    ByKay Uchi August 21, 2020August 21, 2020

    I shed many tears to unpack these memories of my wounds that  are clearly still open just to write this blog.  The subject of ableism is relevant to all aspects of life yet there is very little discussion.  The subject is basically unchallenged by society.  While many people are recognizing and studying racism, much less…

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Alison Hayes

As a person with a sometimes-invisible illness that straddles neurology and psychiatry (Functional Neurological Disorder), I've dealt with a lot of the stigma surrounding physical and mental illnesses and both visible and invisible illnesses. I want to help other people with disabilities to regain perspective and control over their lives through manageable steps and make their lives better, one step at a time.

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I am not a doctor, lawyer, or therapist.  I am a person with a disability who has learned a lot about many aspects of living life with a disabling condition.  My posts are intended as jumping off points connected to the best knowledge I could find.  I cannot be held responsible for the decisions you make or the actions you take.  

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