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    Strategizing for success | Taking care of yourself

    Moving Through Medical Trauma

    ByNicole Neer July 16, 2021July 16, 2021

    Nicole interviewed me for her Spooniepreneur podcast a couple of years ago, and we’ve clicked. When she suggested collaborating by cross-posting on one another’s blogs, I jumped at the opportunity. We both wrote about medical trauma from our own personal experiences. My post on her blog came out a few days ago, and Nicole and…

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    Social connections | Strategizing for success

    Ableism in society: everybody wants you to be okay

    ByAlison Hayes April 9, 2021July 8, 2022

    One of those challenges that many of us need to deal with is that on top of the physical and emotional trauma involved in our illnesses or injuries, we also often need to communicate what is happening to our loved ones and other significant people in our lives.  This can be challenging, as we are…

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    Strategizing for success | Taking care of yourself

    Medical trauma: a shared experience within the disabled community

    ByAlison Hayes September 18, 2020February 1, 2022

    I took a deep breath, put my mask on, and limped into the office. My fingers shifted, tightening so my fingertips touched my palm, squeezing, relaxing. They shot out, stretched to their fullest extent. Some stayed that way, others shifted. I was aware of this, but not consciously telling them to do so. My teeth…

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    Overcoming Obstacles | Dealing with Doctors

    Should I go to the emergency room: the trauma factor

    ByAlison Hayes January 24, 2020February 3, 2020

    My phone rang. ‘Hey, honey?’ my partner Al said “I need you to call mom and dad about this, but I want you to make sure they don’t freak out” “Freak out about what?” I asked, instantly concerned. “Well, they called an ambulance for me. I slipped and I think I might have dislocated my…

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    Analyzing my deepest depression

    ByAlison Hayes March 8, 2019December 12, 2019

    Once more, I am participating in A Chronic Voice’s monthly linkup. words: Failing, Succeeding, Pausing, Deciding & Thriving When I read those words, it made me think about one of the worst bouts of depression in my life.  There were a variety of powerful reasons why I was depressed, and a variety of powerful factors…

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    Overcoming Obstacles

    Thanksgiving and TBI – I miss you dad

    ByAlison Hayes November 23, 2018November 28, 2022

    It’s Thanksgiving week.  This is now my 15th Thanksgiving without my father.  Fifteen years ago, the Saturday before Thanksgiving, my life was irrevocably changed by my father’s traumatic brain injury(TBI).   What happened He slipped.  While climbing a ladder.  He fell less than 10 feet, but just landed on the back of his head.  The…

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Alison Hayes

As a person with a sometimes-invisible illness that straddles neurology and psychiatry (Functional Neurological Disorder), I've dealt with a lot of the stigma surrounding physical and mental illnesses and both visible and invisible illnesses. I want to help other people with disabilities to regain perspective and control over their lives through manageable steps and make their lives better, one step at a time.

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I am not a doctor, lawyer, or therapist.  I am a person with a disability who has learned a lot about many aspects of living life with a disabling condition.  My posts are intended as jumping off points connected to the best knowledge I could find.  I cannot be held responsible for the decisions you make or the actions you take.  

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